Would you rather find yourself attractive (no one else does) or everyone finds you attractive except you?

This is a question I’ve been asked before and at first I thought I knew my answer but then I realized how hard this really is to decide. Would you rather have everyone find you attractive except for you or find yourself attractive even if no one else does? I thought I’d want other people to find me attractive because that would make a lot of things easier in life (relationships, first impressions, etc) but truthfully, if you don’t believe something about yourself, it’s nearly impossible to believe it coming from other people, no matter how many people think it. If you look in the mirror and don’t like what you see, you will never be satisfied by what other people say about you. This question just really makes me think, even about other stuff besides attractiveness.